‘chaos triangle’ of change   Leave a comment

My time is not my own lately and I have a lot of time to think and I’ve been wondering this; have you changed since you’ve left your families home?  Have you changed and your family doesn’t know you’ve changed?

These need not be huge changes in how you are now, verses who you were then, but are you different than your family thinks you are? Does your family have an image of who you are that is out of date, not you any longer? Do they remember the memories that have influenced the image you have chosen for yourself?

Families change, each member has ‘their’ memories, they are not who they were when they left home. Remember to make room for the ‘chaos triangle’ of change.

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Posted September 19, 2011 by sarahdorrance in Family, Thinking

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